A newlywed groom called me the other day. He said "Things are just horrible!" And you know what, when we live in relationship with others, sometimes things are just that...horrible!
Whether you have been married for 20 minutes, or 20 years, sometime we just need a pair of fresh eyes to help us unfold a new perspective about us and the relationships we are in. Perhaps we just need one or two ways of doing things differently, or as one of my best counseling professors used to say: "We don't do things differently. We do ourselves differently."
Sometimes we need even more than "Just a little bit." Sometimes we really need to take a good long look at where we are and where the road is leadin.
And sometimes, I say honestly and with great love, we need to part ways.
Let us help you figure this out. Let us help you give it your best. And if your best just isn't good enough, let us help you part in a way that honors the love you once had for one another.
I realize you may be saying to yourself: "What is this doing on a wedding website??" Well, the fact remains that no matter how much you will laugh and cry on your wedding day, divorce rates are still high. I believe they don't necessarily have to be. I believe that taking an objective look at your selves and your ways of doing things can bring you back into a state of loving committment. Let us, together, increase this chance.